Xmas Turbulence

In Saturday's mailbox, as Northerlies preview Winter . . .

. . .the most important thing we can do over the holidays is take care of ourselves. . .

It’s “the most wonderful time of the year,” they say, but it’s not so for all of us. For those coping with the loss of a loved one, family estrangement, loneliness, financial difficulties, or health struggles, the holidays can be one of the hardest times of the year. . . Many are filled with feelings of longing for things that can never be . . . Society tries – and succeeds with many – to fill our heads with unrealistic notions about perfect gifts, immaculate homes decorated with lavish matching decorations, endless resources to spend, and happy times spent with family. Some find themselves exhausted and stressed trying to live up to social pressures or expectations of others. . . If this isn't you, well then “good on ya.” But if you struggle during the holiday season, the most important thing you can do is pay attention to your own needs and do what you feel is best for you. – after Jen Hankkala

Christmas travel can be “turbulent”: There is nothing like the unexpected to bring out the best in people. – Garrison Keillor

You can't “try” to “let go.” When you try to let go, you are still clinging. Usually for what you believe to be your “dear life.” You already know “You are the ocean,” which means you are also the wave. Navigating The Way of the Watercourse is akin to surfing: Ride the wave.